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Palo Alto School Representative

Center for training, intervention and research

Strategic systemic approach and hypnosis

      There are 5 types of bullies:

      • THE REFUSED : it is the abandoned ex-partner who had or tried to have an emotional relationship with the victim. He is the one who becomes a persecutor after rejection (this type of person can go so far as to kill his victim as an extreme gesture of control). He is not able to clearly read the victim's refusal signals.

      • THE OFFENDED : It is the one who wants revenge for the wrong suffered or presumed. The desire for revenge leads him to a thirst for revenge and to implement intrusive behaviors
      • THE Clumsy : He is the one who implements harassing behaviors because of his poor relational and flirting skills. He is shy and clumsy and his incompetence (social and communicational) can lead him to aggression: the clumsy thinks he has the right to get what he wants and if he can't, he reacts violently.
      • THE ONE WHO NEEDS AFFECTION : He is the one who lives by contenting himself with the illusion of being able to receive a little affection and he is fulfilled by his attitude. Everything can arise from a misunderstanding, or from a smile, a look, a gesture of affection that he will consider as the start of a relationship. It's like a kind of "virtual relationship" between bully and victim. It's one of the most common types even at the age of adolescence or in the form of "virtual loves" with a character from the show, for example The bully can build a relationship in his head from neutral behaviors that he reads in a completely distorted way.
      • THE PREDATOR : It is the one whose goal is to have a sexual relationship with the victim. To achieve his goal he may spend many hours planning actions and prosecutions (this type of stalker includes paedophiles, exhibitionists and fetishists). The invasive and violent behaviors that follow are attempts to gain complete possession and control over the victim.
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      Esistono 5 tipology di stalker:

      • IL RIFIUTATO : ex partner abbandonato che ha avuto o ha cercato di avere una relazione affettiva con la vittima. E' colui che diventa persecutore dopo un rifiuto (tipologia che può arrivere ad uccidere la sua vittima come gesto estremo di controllo). Non è in grado di leggere chiaramente i segnali di rifiuto della vittima.
      • L'OFFESO : é colui che vuole vendicarsi di un torto subtilo o presunto tale. La voglia di vendetta, conduce a una sete di rivalsa e ai successivi comportamenti intrusivi.
      • L'IMBRANATO : colui che m ette in atto comportamenti molesti per le scarse abilità relazionali e di corteggiamento. È timido e impacciato e l'incompetenza (sociale e comunicativa) può sfociare in aggressività: l'imbranato pensa di avere il diritto di ottenere ciò che vuole e se non ci riesce reagisce violentemente.
      • IL BISOGNOSO D'AFFETTO : colui che vive accontentandosi dell'illusione di poterlo ricevere ed è appagato soffrendo per questo atteggiamento. Tutto può nascere da malinteso, da un sorriso, da uno sguardo, da un affettuoso gesto che può essere letto comme l'initiation di una relazione dando vita a un “rapporto virtuale” tra stalker e vittima. If tratta della typologia più diffuse anche nella fascia d'età adolescenziale o sotto forma di "amori virtuali" con un personaggio dello spettacolo. Lo stalker può infatti costruirsi una relazione nella sua mente a partire da comportamenti neutral letti in modo del tutto distorto.
      • IL PREDATORE : colui che ha lo scopo di avere un rapporto sessuale con la vittima e per ottenere il suo obiettivo può arrivere a dedicare molte ore alla pianificazione di azioni e inseguimenti (in questa tipologia rientrano pedofili, esibizionisti e feticisti). I consequently behaved pervasively and violently in his attempt to ottenere he possessed and he totally controlled della vittima.

       

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